Wednesday, December 24, 2014

Baby It's Cold Outside

I have been seeing this blog post circulating around the last few days and I just have to say something...

This song is NOT about rape!  It's NOT about trying to drug or force a woman to do anything!!!

First of all, it was written in 1944.  A very different time socially in the world.

Secondly, read/listen to the lyrics!  She is saying she needs to go home because her parents/brother/sister/aunt will all be worried/suspicious.  She is worried about the neighbors talking.  She keeps finding excuses to stay (maybe another drink/cigarette).  She doesn't really want to leave his company but convention says she should.

When she says "Hey what's in this drink?", I don't think it's meant that he drugged her or anything...it is (IMHO) merely another excuse to stay.

According to Wikipedia: "There is also the line "Hey, what's in this drink", which is seen as implicative of alcohol affecting the woman's judgement or that she has been drugged.  However, many movies, at the time the song was written, used a similar line to refer to someone behaving in a different manner than they expected and blaming it on the alcohol."

Judge for yourself:

"Baby It's Cold Outside"

(I really can't stay) But, baby, it's cold outside
(I've got to go away) But, baby, it's cold outside
(This evening has been) Been hoping that you'd drop in
(So very nice) I'll hold your hands they're just like ice

(My mother will start to worry) Beautiful, what's your hurry
(My father will be pacing the floor) Listen to the fireplace roar
(So really I'd better scurry) Beautiful, please don't hurry
(Well, maybe just half a drink more) Put some records on while I pour

(The neighbors might think) Baby, it's bad out there
(Say what's in this drink) No cabs to be had out there
(I wish I knew how) Your eyes are like starlight now
(To break this spell) I'll take your hat, your hair looks swell

(I ought to say no, no, no, sir) Mind if I move in closer
(At least I'm gonna say that I tried) What's the sense of hurting my pride
(I really can't stay) Baby, don't hold doubt
[Both] Baby, it's cold outside

(I simply must go) Baby, it's cold outside
(The answer is no) Baby, it's cold outside
(The welcome has been) How lucky that you dropped in
(So nice and warm) Look out the window at the storm

(My sister will be suspicious) Gosh your lips look delicious
(My brother will be there at the door) Waves upon a tropical shore
(My maiden aunt's mind is vicious) Gosh your lips are delicious
(But maybe just a cigarette more) Never such a blizzard before

(I got to get home) But, baby, you'd freeze out there
(Say lend me a coat) It's up to your knees out there
(You've really been grand) I thrill when you touch my hand
(But don't you see) How can you do this thing to me

(There's bound to be talk tomorrow) Think of my life long sorrow
(At least there will be plenty implied) If you caught pneumonia and died
(I really can't stay) Get over that old doubt
[Both] Baby, it's cold
[Both] Baby, it's cold outside

Tuesday, December 23, 2014

Review: Betty Crocker's Party Book

Review: Make Ahead Bread: 100 Recipes for Bake-It-When-You-Want-It Yeast Breads

Review: Taste of Home Soups: 380 Heartwarming Family Favorites

Review: Tartine Book No. 3

Review: Tartine Bread


Tartine Bread
Tartine Bread by Chad Robertson

My rating: 4 of 5 stars







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Review: Tartine


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My rating: 4 of 5 stars







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Monday, December 15, 2014

Review: A Singular Destiny


A Singular Destiny
A Singular Destiny by Keith R.A. DeCandido

My rating: 3 of 5 stars



Oh HELL no!

****SPOILERS BELOW****









This book killed off 2 of my favorite characters! B'Elanna Torres and her daughter! Seriously??? There had best be some follow-up in a later book that checks in with Tom Paris!

I am NOT a happy camper right now!



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Review: Becoming Sister Wives: The Story of an Unconventional Marriage


Becoming Sister Wives: The Story of an Unconventional Marriage
Becoming Sister Wives: The Story of an Unconventional Marriage by Kody Brown

My rating: 4 of 5 stars







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Review: The Good Housekeeping Housekeeping Book


The Good Housekeeping Housekeeping Book
The Good Housekeeping Housekeeping Book by Helen W. Kendall

My rating: 4 of 5 stars







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Review: Pillsbury Family Christmas Cookbook


Pillsbury Family Christmas Cookbook
Pillsbury Family Christmas Cookbook by Pillsbury Editors

My rating: 4 of 5 stars







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Review: Betty Crocker's Pie and Pastry Cookbook


Betty Crocker's Pie and Pastry Cookbook
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My rating: 4 of 5 stars







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Tuesday, September 30, 2014

55 Days of Holiday Movies 2014! **UPDATED**


We are going big this year for the marathon!!!  55 days!!!

You will notice occasional break from the holiday theme.  All "off topic" movies are explained...Have fun!!!

For more information on any of the movies just head over to www.imdb.com :c)

November 01:  A Flintstone Christmas
November 02:  The Muppet Christmas Carol
November 03:  A Garfield Christmas
November 04:  Muppet Family Christmas
November 05:  Babes in Toyland
November 06:  [my father's birthday] Battle Cry
November 07:  Deck the Halls
November 08:  How the Grinch Stole Christmas (cartoon)
November 09:  How the Grinch Stole Christmas (with Jim Carrey)
November 10:  Barbie in a Christmas Carol
November 11:  [Veteran's Day] They Were Expendable, Sands of Iwo Jima, The Fighting SeaBees, and Midway
November 12:  Jeff Dunham's Very Special Christmas Special
November 13:  The Nutcracker
November 14:  Beauty and the Beast: the Enchanted Christmas
November 15:  Christmas With the Kranks
November 16:  Prep & Landing, Prep & Landing Stocking Stuffer, and Prep & Landing: Naughty vs. Nice
November 17:  The Santa Clause
November 18:  The Santa Clause 2
November 19:  The Santa Clause 3
November 20:  Christmas With the Chipmunks
November 21:  The Madagascar Penguins In A Christmas Caper
November 22:  Shrek the Halls
November 23:  Merry Madagascar
November 24:  Marie Osmond's Merry Christmas
November 25:  While You Were Sleeping
November 26:  The Jetsons Christmas Carol
November 27:  [Thanksgiving, U.S.A.] A Charlie Brown Thanksgiving
November 28:  An Osmond Family Christmas
November 29:  A Flintstone Christmas Carol
November 30:  The Vicar of Dibley: The Christmas Lunch Incident
December 01:  A Charlie Brown Christmas
December 02:  Lady Gaga & The Muppets' Holiday Spectacular
December 03:  Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer: the Island of Misfit Toys
December 04:  Arthur Christmas
December 05:  Barbie: A Perfect Christmas
December 06:  Celtic Woman: A Christmas Celebration
December 07: [Pearl Harbor Day]  Tora, Tora, Tora, From Here to Eternity, and In Harm's Way
December 08:  Holiday Inn (B&W) & Holiday Inn (colorized)
December 09:  I'll Be Home for Christmas [1988]
December 10:  Orla Fallon's Celtic Christmas
December 11:  Frosty the Snowman
December 12:  Love Actually
December 13:  A Diva's Christmas Carol
December 14:  Scrooge
December 15:  Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer
December 16:  [first day of Hanukkah] Eight Crazy Nights
December 17:  It's Christmastime Again Charlie Brown
December 18:  Christmas in Connecticut
December 19:  Santa Claus is Coming to Town
December 20:  A Christmas Carol (with Patrick Stewart)
December 21:  [first day of winter] Frozen
December 22:  Celtic Woman: Home for Christmas Live
December 23:  The Year Without a Santa Clause
December 24:  It's a Wonderful Life
December 25:  White Christmas